Monthly Archives: January 2011

A New Year Revelation

“Why are you treating shopping like your work?”
My boyfriend of four years snapped at me

It was one of the rare days I had time to shop
If not for the impending Chinese New Year,
I wouldn’t have allowed myself the luxury of time join the frenzy consumerism taking over most Singaporeans at this time of the year

Time was tight
Three hours to purchase everything on my wish list

There were long queues at the dressing rooms, cash registers, restaurants and public transport
Coupled with my impatience
You don’t need Paul the Octopus to predict that I didn’t managed to get all my shopping done

With an hour left
And dress, shoes, decorations and stationery still missing
I was clearly frowning at my inefficiency

“I’m not going to finish my shopping today. There’s no time left” I let out a sigh of exasperation
He turned to me, with a look like he was dating the wrong lady for the last four years.
That’s when he associated shopping with work

Insisting that I’m getting overly task-oriented, without the capacity to enjoy free-time,
The boyfriend shaked his head to conclude that I am a loss-case

Oh well, people change right?
For better or for worse? I like to think it’s the former.

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If Sh** Comes your Way

Today a terrible piece of news reminded me this
Serverity of situation doesn’t matter
What does is how you face the music and overcome it

Imagine receiving a call from your event venue partner saying that they cannot support you

WHY NOT?
For one minute, my mind raced, desperately searching for answers
Then I took an extremely deep breathe, count to three, and mentally took notes of my alternatives

In life, there’re always alternatives
Never forget that
If things don’t turn out as you wish
Gather all your energy and resources to create a second route
Do it quickly, failure to do so will only lead you deeper into your own mess

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Not Just Another Birthday

I can’t remember how I spend my last 23 birthdays
But this year is one that I’ll never forget

Shannon threw a surprise party - Nico strum the guitar while other colleagues sung 'Happy Birthday'!

My big day in brief
Kicking off with an important investor meeting at 10am
Completing with a sumptuous dinner with our advisor at 11pm
Business talk – around the clock

By the time I reached home, everyone was asleep
They’ve probably waited too long for my return
Guilt gripped me

Fortunately, my parents weren’t hopping mad over my absence
A cake was in our fridge overnight
The next evening, we cut the cake together
And I had three servings!

I’ll remember this year, not because of my workaholic habits
But because I realised the importance of family support
Without which, success would be a step further

 

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